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November 13, 2006

「どうやって謝るか」のスピーチ

「どうやって謝るか」のスピーチの実践報告も「いじめ」のカテゴリーに入れる。
うまく謝ることも、大事な生きる力(処世術)なのである。

◆僕は友だちに謝る方法について発表します。手紙や次の日に謝るという意見があったけど、ぼくはその日にあやまることが相手に気持ちが伝わりやすい方法だと思います。理由はすぐ謝れるし、相手の気持ちも分かるからです。次の日だとすぐ謝れないし、手紙だと相手の様子が分からないから誤解して気まずくなることもあると思います。電話だと相手が出ないと伝わらないという悪い点があるけど、やっぱり自分の口から早く謝った方が一番気持ちが伝わると思います。ぼくがもし口げんかをしたら電話で謝ると思います。ぼくはこの方法をおすすめします。
 これで僕の発表を終わります。

◆ぼくは友達に謝る方法について発表します。ぼくは次の日に会ってあやまるが一番いいと思います。なぜかというと、手紙やメールだと読んでもらえないかもしれないし、電話だと出てもらえないかもしれないからです。また、次の日だと落ち着いていて許してもらえる可能性があるからです。その日だとまたけんかになるかもしれないからです。さらに手紙みたいに手間もかからないし、電話みたいにお金もいらないということもあるからです。
授業の時にけんかしたから話しにくいというのがあったけれど、M君の意見であったように直接話すのでいやだとは言えないし、気持ちが一番伝わりやすいので、そう考えると話しにくいというのはなくなると思います。
このようなよい点から、友だちにあやまる方法は次の日にあやまりに行くがいいと思います。
これで発表を終わります。

・・・手紙を選んだ子もいるし、メールを選んだ子もいる。それはそれでいい。
それぞれの意見の長所・短所を考えて最終的な自分の判断を下すその過程で
「自分の意見だけが正しい」と考えるのではなく
「そういう考え方もあるんだな」と許容することができたらすばらしいことだと思う。
自分の価値を絶対視したり強制したりすることの無意味さをデイベート的な発想が育んでくれるのだとしたら、まさに国語の授業が心の教育になる。

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