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November 06, 2006

齋藤孝の本「そんな友だちなら、いなくたって・・・」

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齋藤孝の「ガツンと一発シリーズ」(PHP)というのが、学校の図書館に入れてある。
その第3巻は「そんな友だちなら、いなくたっていいじゃないか」である。
これは、私がブログで書いたことと、意味合いは同じだった。

齋藤氏の言葉を紹介すると
「ほんとうの友だち以外はいらない」
「ひとりになれない人は、仕事ができない人間だと判断されてしまいます」
「友だちといつもいっしょ、というのはやめよう」
「お弁当ぐらいひとりで食べたっていいじゃないか」
「友だちから仲間はずれにされたら、チャンスだと思えばいい」

 つるまない人=単独者として
・集団から抜けて自分のレースをした高橋尚子選手
・一人で黙々と練習をした中田英寿選手
・小学校の時から友だちと遊ばないで練習したイチロー選手
などが挙げられている。

 「たくさん友だちがいた方が人間的に優れている」わけではない。それが単なる「つるみ仲間」なら、なおさらだ。
 それはバレンタインのチョコの数で人間の優劣が決められないのと同じだ。
 バレンタインのチョコだって、無意味な10個よりも厳選された1個の方が価値がある。
 「友だち100人できたかな」などといった言葉で、人数を競う風潮だけはなくしていきたい。

 ただし、私は、このように友人関係を冷ややかに見られるのは中学生になってからだと思う。
 小学生のうちから「僕は1人で生きていきます」なんて厭世的な発想はしてほしくない。

 教師は「1人でいるからほかっておいて」という子どもの本音を把握しなくてはいけない。
 単なる強がりなら、やはり友達とうまく協調していける方法も身につけさせていかねば。 

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